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How do you discover your partner Before getting married

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Why did you think one should get married
And how can reason marriage be as important as who you marry

Many marriage have been broken,some are not in peace. Many youth wanna settled down and have a home,but the problem is how can one discover his/her soulmate? 

How sure are you that you won’t fall into a wrong hand??

This gist was discussed in flashgist platform. So we want to hear from you also

 

“HOW CAN YOU DISCOVER YOUR PARTNERS OR HOW CAN YOU KNOW HER/SHE IS THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU”

According to one of our partners she said:

 

I study a guy, pray about it. If he won’t satisfy me. I will doubt his character during courtship…. Then I move forward
Can’t wait to have a patner I have to wait for
Love is life
When you’re in love you see life
I pray God orders my step jare
Cos that man I have been waiting for mustn’t be the wrong choice at the end
Abi na
I have a guy. His own shortcomings is. He likes to command his gf to do anything to look good for him
Makeups,hair and dressing
Another guy, his own is that he loves only spiritual stuff
Another one, he likes ladies too much
Whenever I think of marriage. I pray for an understanding husband
The one that is always concerned about how I feel
That’s care. A caring guy defines love
But some guys forget love when they don’t have money
They have forgotten that even money can’t purchase love
Although they should go together. No lady wanna get married to a poor guy
No hard working guy prays to remain poor at the same time
“She define husband as”

Honest: Relationship is all about being real and trustworthy

Understanding: U as my husband should know my mood and care about it

Spiritual: You as a husband should take the spiritual lead

Brilliant : of course my husband should be brilliant. Even if I am not. Two wrongs can never make a right. If am not sound academically. I don’t have to go for an husband like myself. That produces generation of dullards. Our children can’t be better of.

Ambitious: an ambitious man is he that keeps his passion for success even after married. Your wife shouldn’t be the cause of your failure in life and your inability to utilize your potentials

Natural :natural here,is a group word for being natural in character, dressing and affection. A man doesn’t need to take drugs before making love with his spouse

Devoted :a responsible man must be devoted in all ramifications. Devoted to his God, his wife, the children and his parents as well. A responsible man doesn’t forget his first family (parents and siblings) after marriage. He also should learn to be dedicated to his wife’s parents. They trained and nurtured his wife for him.

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Meet the CEO of Omo Baba Mighty Entertainment (O.B.E )

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Meet the CEO of Omo Baba Mighty

 

Prince Solomon Olorode born in the 80’s known professionally as Say Solo is a Nigerian Talking drummer, back up singer , entrepreneur and a philanthropist with a heart of Gold .
He is the founder and CEO of Omo Baba Mighty entertainment and SLOMTECK ALIVE ALUMINIUM COM.
Prince Solomon hails from Oyo state Nigeria but born and raised in Lagos where he completed his education to pursue his career in the music industry. Started his career in church where he was invited to play as a talking drummer (guest minister) with over 18 years of experience in the industry he has successfully worked with the likes of Nigeria Police Band, Tommy J, Omo Alase, Tayo Tayo all are famous juju singer dedicating his time and energy to see the band grows with so many awards to his name .

In December 2020 Prince Solomon decided to give back to the society by floating his own record label Omo Baba Mighty ( OBE ) it’s purpose is to bridge the gap between the poor talented youths who has no support to pursue there career.
And been a philanthropist he has supported couple of events to this cause .
Omo Baba Mighty Entertainment is here to stay.. OBE to the world

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Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

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Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit
Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit.

Habits are those things you do often and regularly, sometimes without knowing that you are doing it. They are things you engage in and gradually become part of you.

If all habits are good there Would be no need to curb some habits. There are different kinds of habits (both good and bad) that can be found in children as well as adults.

Examples of bad habits for children are

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Nose picking: this is the habit of putting a finger in the nostrils to remove dirt. Some children even do it to the extent of dipping the finger in their mouth.
* Sucking of thumb or fingers :children derive so much pleasure in Sucking their thumb and fingers, they prefer forgoing their food .
* Teeth grinding : this is crushing the teeth together to give an irritating sound, at first children see it as a playful activity which gradually becomes an habit.

* Nail biting : those who bite finger nails become so addicted to it

* Eating junks : junks are unbalanced diet that can be taken not as main meal just for refreshment e. g, chocolates, yoghurt.

Parents feel so concerned about bad habits of their children and try every possible means to stop them, parents tend to be so harsh on children at this point putting eyes more on their children but this cannot really stop them. Parents can curb their children from these act by doing the following

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

1. Showing them love: by doing this, they will be able to correct children with love

2.making children engage in more productive activity like watching television rather than being lonely

3.Preparing different delicacy that looks fascinating make children want to eat food rather than feeding on junks .

Parents can also curb children of their habits by close monitoring, telling them how good looking they are, and explaing why those habits need to be curtailed.

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

Adults also have their bad habits which can be

1. Smoking and drinking : habit as regular activities people engage in can turn out to be a person’s way of life can also be smoking and drinking. Those who smoke and drink on a daily basis become so addicted to it that they can’t do without it.

Smoking and drinking as a bad habit can cause memory loss which can later be a psychological problem, waste of money on invaluable things, smoking can cause students to drop out from school, it can lead to poverty, hallucination and above all death .

2. Mastubating : masturbation is a practice which degrades the body system.

3.Gambling: this is a bad habit which involves doubling money, those who engage in it most times waste their money and all their assets on it, it is a practice that doesn’t give room for self development. Those who do it prefer to waste all their money on it expecting it to yield a bountifully.

4 . Using of vulgar languages: majority, especially adults don’t see this as a bad thing anymore, they become so confident using vulgar languages even when they have young ones who can learn such bad act from them.

5. Procastinating
Improper dressing can also become a bad habit when the person in question is addicted to it .

Steps to take to stop bad habits.

The first thing you must know is, no one can help me stop bad habits, except you, be determined to stop it by first, realizing the need to stop it because the need not to stop it is the need to continue it. So, come to conclusion on the reasons why you need to stop bad habits

1. Sit down, check yourself and think on something (positive) you’re very good at,like a talent. Develope yourself in it, by doing this, you’re involving yourself in productive activity rather than smoking or gambling

2. Get yourself a meal timetable and follow it diligently. It encourages you to eat well

3. Stay away from negative peer pressure, associate with people who are focused and simple.

Curbing bad habits and maintaining Good habit

As there are bad habits, there are also good habits that need to be learnt, maintained and practice. Good habits bring honour. They define the family one emanates from, the environment one lives

As there are bad habits, there are also good habits that need to be learnt, maintained and practice. Good habits bring honour. They define the family one emanates from, the environment one lives and they also have the Good part of influencing one’s environment at large.
Good habits needs to be learnt, maintained and be part of one.

Reasons for keeping good habits are :
Examples of good habits

1. Washing your hands after using the toilet
2. Eating healthy
3. Taking fruits
4. Practising some exercises
5. Get yourself a skill/talent
6. Good moral behaviors like obedience, truthfulness, hardworking etc.

Where can we learn these good habits.
Good habits can be learnt from family, friends and those you associate with. You determine your way of life by those you associate with because your environment has great power on your life Pattern.

Good habits be can learnt from school, we also learn good habits from television programs. That means what you watch and listen to patterns your thoughts and life.

Need for Good habits
Habits square measure the idea of your success – or even your downfall. Yet despite the importance of habits, few individuals apprehend a lot of regarding however they work.

Habits square measure typically thought of negatively, like a drug habit or a gambling habit. But there can be good habits, such as exercising regularly, making thoughtful comments and meditating.

Good habits have effect on you in the sense that they influence your academics.Diligence helps you to be successful academically and in the business world.

Good habits like exercise helps you burn fat and make your body fit
Smiling is also a good habit which makes you look younger and brighter.

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